侠女的定义

认识我的人都知道,侠女是我本人的特别称号,就连我的e-mail address 也以此为命名----swordsgirl....有种很莫名的感觉厚~或许大家都会认为这称号确实和我的外表很不相秤,但真正的侠女气质却是发自我内心的~--------义气,打抱不平,厌恶世间的恶势力~



侠女,或女侠的定义是什么?
是身怀绝技,武艺高超,行走江湖,锄强扶弱那么简单吗?
事实上,侠女的定义不仅仅如此而已,个人的品行和武德却是习武之人最为主要的条件之一....



我不敢对我自己的品行妄下定论,也不能吹毛求疵地评定我是个品行完好的人....
但实话说,高尚的品德和君子之道是我今生所向往的目标~
我曾想过,要是我身怀十八般武艺,内功高深,德高望众,替天行道,能压垮恶势力.的侠女.....感觉应该不赖吧~呵呵~(想太多了)但在这个年代,这一切也只是个空壳而已....



从武侠小说的,<<射雕英雄传>>的黄蓉,<<神雕侠侣>>的郭襄,<<倚天屠龙记>>的赵敏,周芷若,.到<<笑傲江湖>>的东方不败.........嗯~~~~东方不败........不在侠女的行列吧~........让我想到林青霞,嘻嘻~...>.<
她们都在金庸笔下,展现出自己独特的行事做风,无论是正派反派,让我肃然起敬的不是她们的武艺,
而是因为她们反映了在江湖与及男尊女卑的封建社会里所经历的喜怒哀乐,和她们如何坚持自己的信念来完成最终目标....当然,是以正道手法~
举个例子吧~在<<射>>里智聪巧颖的黄蓉,从个性活泼,到后期的沉稳,聪慧,
反映了生命的可塑性;年少逃家,婚后和郭靖共当武林和国家大业~~~
这种种让我很是敬佩...


随身佩戴着百兵之君-----剑,
披着单色古代衣衫,骑着汗血宝马,
再秉着侠义之心的胸襟~
侠女风范再现~~~




总得来说,不论是时代的变迁,要成为侠女,必须从修养自己的品德做为起点,
至于舞刀弄剑嘛~
有机会可以学习学习一下.....^^

A depressive day~

Today 25 April 2009
i have just finished my MUET exam in my school.
frankly,it was my second time to taking this test...Compared with last time,im really disappointed
to my performances today especially in listening part....
In fact,the listening part was my weak point causing my result going down the drain in my first MUET last year....
I got band 3 for the whole test....=.=.......
sad and speechless,just left 2 more marks then can get band 4,but failed......




Since my failure in last year,so i decided to take the test again in this year.
i told myself,i must strive and get at least band 4,not bcoz of lack of confidence,
the fact is bcoz of my broken english...damn lousy lar.......im not lying....+.+




Today i went to school by kok yuan's car,at the moment i get in the car,just saw ping and pam were reading for the test....while eeling in front of car....
i was trying to relax myself and take a sleep before arriving in school.
my thought was sudden fulled of depression,nervous...OMG,headache again >.<


haiz...dont know how to express my feeling today........speechless...




Band 5,or even Band 6~
for me ,it's too far away and impossible to achieve it...
well,but one of my friend-----Edison Chegne....aiyo,i have got used to call him eu wei lar,
it is sound better lar~...He was my classmate since form 4 in secondary school...
he was so confident to his performances in MUET and said there is not impossible to get band 6..
what LONG LIVE BAND 6~.i never thought of it lor~...
anyway,eu wei~i believes you sure can make it de~^^




I just hope that i can still keep on going for the upcoming speaking test next week...
now,i must get through all my homework within these 2 days instead of everthing....
PA 1,PA 2.Maths 1,Maths 2,biology,physical chemistry~proposal and report for chess EC open~
all these packed me to the hell already~...ahhhhhhhh~

pic

its been a few week ago since i blogged
here i would like to share some pix of my frenz's birthday party & singapore trip~

here v go~

celebrating for wei ping's b'day in JUSCO~^^

with pamela^^(cute sia~)

eeling&wei ping! what were they doing???(molesting!)




shoting in toilet^^





















after losing in true or dare~(gaoyuan & adrian)






















once upon a time^^









the kid's bag promoters~~





















the hair dryer model~presented by ah soh & eeling >.<







Singapore Trip~

waiting for bus~

nice~







in NTU Campus~







































THE END~^^

我不是四川妹!!!

自我研读中国历史至今,应该已有六年之久吧! (从中一到现在)

就因为我对中国历史和人文的那份热忱,再加上朋友们对于我拥有这种对中华文化的情怀,

"四川妹"这个称号也由此而来...哈哈!还记得在中四那年,起初被称叫"中国妹"(嗯~听起来总觉得有点耐人寻味.....),后来就因为我的一位朋友的一席话:"到四川去卖四川菜呗!"...啥??=.=

呵呵,就这样被改称为"四川妹",但...我必须阐明的是....我始终还是道道地地,身上永远流着华夏子弟血脉的马来西亚华人!^^


嗯~要我卖四川菜....只可惜,我不吃辣(因为四川菜多数都是辣的),还是北京菜较和我口味!


***四川位于中国南方,中国南方人都偏于吃辣;而北方人则不太爱吃辣,这也由于中国地形和族群的分差,南方和北方的天气都有点差异,在口味方面自然有所不同

回想起来,还蛮可笑的,真的很怀念这个名称,但现在物是人非,大家都各自到不同的地方念书,

这称号只能成为我脑海里的烙印....还记得和朋友们一起聊天的时候,大家都互相"讽刺"(也就是我们新山人讲的"被炸"或"被酸"的意思),...

而我,却是被"炸"的第一受害者,哈哈~而且还被炸得体无完肤,一点感觉也没有,反而越炸越痛快!

这就证明我还是个宽宏大度,有度量的人呗!(haiz,不要脸,^.^),其实也是因为俺的言举会让他们不知所措,嘻嘻~当然大家的友情依旧屹立不倒滴!



就如孔子对他的学生说的:"仁者不忧,知者不惑,勇者不惧"-------<<论语.宪问>>

就是说,一个人一但有了一种仁义之心,就是让自己的胸怀无限大,该放下的就放下,你能宽容别人,其实就是给自己留下一片海阔天空....
这也是我欣赏儒家思想的一点


"四川妹"-------这称号让我想起当年曾经对自己承诺,等到我自己有所成就,一定要环绕全中国,

这也是我人生的目标之一,虽然在去年只去过了我的祖乡中国福建,....在踏入中原土地的那一刹那,我对自己说:"我终于踏到了中国的土地了!"....这一刻让我记忆犹新,总有一天,我一定要走遍中国的每个角落----从西藏的布达拉宫,美纶美奂的江南美景,雄伟又富丽堂皇的紫禁城,太和殿和故宫,蒙古的科尔沁大草原,中国五岳山,到溶和了中国和俄罗斯文化的黑龙江.....



而在这之前,我也曾经想过到中国发展,但天不时,地不利,人不和,
这念头也随之而逝....
然而,对中华文化的热忱却毫无更改!



哈~看起来我好象还蛮"哈华"的~呵呵,其实不然....这只是我对这片土地的历史背景有所牵挂的原因吧!

总之,我不是四川妹啦! ~ 晓得不吗?(四川话-知道吗?) 哈哈!!

Unpredictable Life

Life is unpredictable.
As everyone as human being do have their family,relatives and friends who are being important in life.
The time is getting shorter as the day goes by,
that's is unawared and unpredicted by everyone.

Life as short as you can't predict.
Family,relatives,friends are the one who give you support,concern and stand for you.
The people nowadays keep running for their dream,work for money,strive for a luxury life...
are they seems to be selfish??of reckless??
Once you keep caring urself without appreciate of other helping to you in every moment,
you will get regrets as loosing one of them.

Do you ever think that how much you have conributed for your family and friends who are the loves one in your life?
i have no idea regarding this question...
Haven't you?
probably no...

Life as meaningful as you can't even realise it.
Even if you'd not realise it,the earth will still going round without disturbance...
Make your life simple,
do something for urself and those who are really care for you...

May you can shape your destiny as well.....^^